My real life story: My Struggles makes me stronger and happier

Friends, I like to share some of my life secrets. My name is Mobarza. I live in Palm Desert California. I have a small accounting business.

don’t live in a fairy land.

Some time it’s funny when most of my clients say “I am very lucky, and I can work from home or anywhere. They often called me a Princess. Well, maybe the reason behind their statement is that-they have seen me smiling and happy all the time.

Yes I have my own work hours, but I worked every day. Yes I am blessed with great clients, but I worked hard for them. And I often don’t charge them for all the extra work.

Yes I have a Great/solid accounting business and I can double this anytime. However, I have struggled a lot to come to this point. I started my business in 2007 with zero client without anyone’s help. Today, I have many clients because I worked longer hours and spend years to build it. I struggled a lot not only to established my business; but to save my business and my Life from some Criminals in Chamber/City Hall of Palm Desert. Whatever I go through in the past and present, that’s between God and me. No matter what, I never asked others to help me, and I always start my day with a smile and hope.

Yes I do have many dresses and shoes, but they are not free, I worked for them. No one ever give me a dime, I worked for each penny. I never use anyone’s shoulder to grow, I just trust on God. Yes, I laugh all the time even when I was facing life threatening situations, though I have to struggle to hide my pain. 

had become stronger after facing the life challenges.

My life is not like a princess. Yes, I do grow up like a princess, but that was a very old story. Now I am facing same struggles, which everyone else is facing in this world, or maybe I am facing much more than average person.

I have faced many problems and life threatening situations by wrong doers. I have been stabbed & hurt, and faced death threats by authority-figure. I have encountered worst humans in this world, but I survived against their evil. You will surprise to know that I have dodged death. I was naive about the world, and the world showed me the ugly faces. But that’s fine I learned and grow. 

I have lost my parents and younger brother unexpectedly, Yes I still miss them. Yes I often cried, but I chose to smile everyday day-no matter what.

I am pretty sure most people can’t even survive a day what I have faced in the past. Sometimes, even I wonder, how I made this far. I have faced more pain than anyone imagine, but I survived and that’s the main point. One day I will tell you my entire life story in detail, and all of you will be shocked-how I am walking in this world. Of Course, I couldn’t make this far-without God and my parents’ prayers. I am not the only one who faced life challenges, there are many in this world who are facing many issues and managed to stay happy. 

have to constantly fight to save my life and work from extremely influential people. Fight for Justice is extremely dangerous when criminals are influential. I am continuously harassed by the some Staff/board members Chamber/Rotary and Councilor/Mayor of Palm Desert Ca. They worked as a team. Initially, I ignored them. Then it start getting out of the hand, I did complained to authorities over and over since 2012. Sadly they done nothing. I have been bullied, verbally abused/insulted and faced death threats. Katie Stice & Jan Harnik asked me over and over do something for her friends/chamber that was crime/un-ethical. They said, if I join them, then I would get more business and benefits. I refused; they said I will regret. There’re some compromising-pictures too. It’s a long story. I couldn’t tell the details, they will cut me into pieces or give me slow and painful death (they have said).

I kept writing letters/emails to all the local authorities; still nothing changed. They had told me on various occasions that they knew my both landlords (office/home) and they will throw me out of my own places pretty soon, and they have resources to do anything with me.

Unfortunately, I endured tremendous tortured/assaulted; and there’s still no investigations.

Even I am facing million problems, I am still trying to stay Happy in tears my eyes.

Happiness don’t depend on your circumstances. It just depends on your state of mind.

My advice for a happy life:

I have one advice for any one who is hurting and going through hell. It will pass. Stay strong and don’t give up on your dreams. God is with you. Say thanks to God. Always count your blessings not the other way.

Strength and growth come only through continuous effort and struggle.

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of those depths.

Success is not measured by what you accomplish, but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming odds.

You have to struggle no matter where you are.

Never never never Give Up.

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Caroline Gill

A writer, blogger, and traveler. Being creative and making things keep me happy is my life motto.

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